Who is THAT girl?

Most women aspire to be THAT girl…

We want to be the woman who turns heads but not in a slutty or overly lusty sort of way.  We want to be the woman that men wonder about but not always to the extent that they feel comfortable asking.  We want to be the woman who other women feel comfortable enough to strike up a conversation without feeling intimidated.

Oddly, there seems to be a disconnect for some women between being THAT girl and the woman who other women shield their husbands from.  We sometimes find ourselves unable to find common ground with other women or have men approach us in disrespectful ways.

It’s easy to blame the other person and say that they just don’t like me or they’re hating on me but sometimes you have to ask yourself if you are just being typical and living up to the stereotype or if you are carrying yourself in a way that makes people want to get to know you and ask…

Who is THAT girl?

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