Someone once asked me how long I think two people should date before getting engaged. Obviously, that answer depends on the two people but at my age, I am thinking that he should know within one to two years if I’m the one that he wants to spend the rest of the life with. I have been told by several guys that they know within the first fifteen minutes whether a female is someone who they could envision themselves marrying.
This really tripped me out on one hand because it’s like how can wait on someone for 28 years to make the ultimate commitment but on the other hand, if you are planning to spend the rest of your life with someone, what different does it make if it takes 2 years, 8 years or 28 years for them to decide they want to get married.
What do you think???